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Our Relationship Mentoring program is based on our belief that great relationships are not something that just happens.....our experience has taught us that they are something that is created!

As life partners, we have spent the last 40 years working through and studying the complex issues that relationships present.  We have learnt lots of fabulous skills that help us to talk to and listen to each other much more effectively.  We’ve worked through the issues from our childhoods that were keeping us stuck in the cycle of blame and allowing us to not take responsibility for our actions and reactions.  We’ve changed old patterns of behviour, removed old negative beliefs that were holding us back and created relationships where conflict no longer exists.

If this sounds like something you’d like to achieve, we’d love to share what we’ve learnt with you!

We understand that relationships are very personal things.  We’ve all been conditioned to think that if our relationships aren’t perfect, we’ve failed in some way.  Here at Relationship Mechanics we believe that everyone can learn how to create healthy relationships.

Our society has a history of sweeping conflict 'under the carpet'.  Given that conflict is a normal part of eveyday life, this is a very unhelpful strategy.  Tension builds, people compete to get their needs met and relationships suffer.  However, this is not how it has to be.  We can all develop new ways of being and behaving that can take the stress out and help us to live more fulfilling lives.

So if you’d like to learn the mechanics of a great relationship or to resolve issues of conflict, we’d love to hear from you.  Our program can be tailored to meet the needs of each situation.  We work in whatever combination is going to suit you.

Sessions are usually an hour long.  They can be held at our premises on the Sunshine Coast, or if you prefer or you live elsewhere, we can hold them over the phone.

We work with individuals, couples and families to assist them to resolve issues and learn new ways of communicating!

We also offer workshops and courses that teach relationship skills and offer opportunities to clear childhood issues, identify blocked emotions, change unhelpful beliefs and learn new ways of being and behaving that will not only enhance your relationships but bring peace and tranquility to your life.

We learn to communicate by listening to those around us.  We pick up the subtle do's and don'ts in the very early stages of our development.  We move through life with rules and regulations about how we should relate to each other, underpinning everything we do.  Sometimes this is helpful - very often it is not!  We can assist you to take a conscious look at which of these boundaries are working for you and which ones you would prefer to exchange for something that will be more in keeping with what you desire.

It is our belief that the premise that it is possible to change someone else's behaviour and that this will actually bring us happiness, is one of the most flawed.  Most people expend large amounts of energy working from this belief, only to end up feeling frustrated and defeated.

This is because it is not possible to change someone else's beliefs or behaviours.  That is something that only each of us can do for ourselves.  It is however, possible to influence others.  Whilst it is impossible to force someone else to change, we always have the option to change whatever we are thinking, believing and doing.  The magical thing about this is that we not only improve our own lives but we show others that it is possible to take control and create what we want.

Check out our calendar for upcoming workshops.

We all have the power to change our lives - it is within each of us!

All of us have excess energies stored within our bodies.  These come from our life experiences and the emotional traumas we've experienced along the way.

When old issues are activated, it's often described as 'someone pushing my buttons."  We believe that these 'buttons' are actually our stored emotions which are re-activated when a similar event to the original 'wounding' occurs.

We have seen, first-hand the remarkable change that can come about with the removal of these 'buttons' and the healing of these 'wounds'.

We work with a variety of modalities such as Reiki, Crystal Light Healing, Essence of Angels and the Shamanic teachings of Soul Retrieval to remove these unwanted and sometimes deeply embedded energies.

We usually allow 1.5 to 2 hours per treatment to allow us to tailor each session the needs of the individual.

Treat yourself to a cleansing of mind, body & spirit!

We all have an inner voice that can guide us on our path and help us to make choices that will support our soul’s journey.

Meditation is an excellent tool for learning how to quiet the mind, move into stillness and hear this inner voice.

Changing how we move through life can require us to look deeply within and identify what it is that is holding us back.  The busyness of life and the conditioning that we've experienced often makes this difficult.

By relaxing the body and mind, meditation can greatly assist us to get in touch with old beliefs and negative patterns and release them.  Getting rid of the old makes way for new and exciting ways of thinking and acting to enter our consciousness and support us to live the life of our dreams.

Give yourself the gift of relaxation!